Sunday, November 28, 2010

A Thankful Giving


Mariama, Thea, Kim

At the heart of Thanksgiving is the expression of gratitude for having enough food to eat and to share all the wonderful bounties of life with others.

My family had the pleasure of sharing this Thanksgiving with Mariama. She looked happy and healthy and full of life. The evaluation process is finished ending with a 24 hour blood pressure monitor ending the Wed. before Thanksgiving. It does a reading every 20 minutes during the day and once and hour at night. Although I was hoping to be on my way to recovery by this time, it was awesome to eat a delicious turkey dinner joining families; remembering its not in my time but God's time that all things happen.  I just hope He hurries up.(SMILE~WINK~LOL)

Nick (my life partner) has his 4 children arriving this week from Australia. Anna 21, David 19, Joe 17 & Eliza 14 will be arriving on November 30. They are on their summer holiday from Aussieland and are on their way to the USA.  We are very grateful that they will be joining us. They will be here until February. With my 4 children Victoria 16, Spencer 14, Parker 11& Theo and Nick's 4 children we will have a full house for the Holiday season. We are a true, modern day Brady Bunch.

Miracles are everywhere this Holiday season. The father of my children Phil, is the most wonderful Dad any child could ask for. He has been a true support. We were all together this Thanksgiving. A true healing. He has offered to help Nick and I with what we need while Nick's children are here. The big need is how to transport 10 people around New England. Lucky for us, Phil has a van. I am so grateful for his kindness and support.

God's love is all around. You can see it where ever you go. Constant and Eternal. In every smile. In every wink. In laughter. I'm so grateful for His protection, always keeping me safe in His care. His love has kept me healthy and with this love I am able to give the gift of hope, health and happiness to another. I'm just so grateful.



Monday, November 22, 2010

No Kidding About the Kidney~

Black, Hispanic Kidney Donors More Likely to Develop Chronic Kidney Disease: http://www.renalbusiness.com/

CT Scan 11/12/10 confirm Thea has 2 kidneys


BOSTON—Black and Hispanic kidney donors are significantly more likely than white donors to develop hypertension, diabetes and chronic kidney disease, according to new Saint Louis University research published in the Aug.  19 issue of the New
England Journal of Medicine.

“We’ve long known that diabetes and hypertension disproportionately affect blacks and Hispanics. Our research found that these racial disparities also exist among living kidney donors, post donation,” said Krista Lentine, MD, associate professor of internal medicine and lead researcher at Saint Louis University School of Medicine. “Increased attention to health outcomes among demographically diverse kidney donors is needed.”

Researchers say that while these findings should not be used to discourage anyone from donating on the basis of race and ethnicity alone, these factors should be taken into consideration when counseling potential donors about their future health risks.

Given the significant organ shortage, many patients with end-stage renal disease rely on living donor kidney transplantation. According to Lentine, in 2006, approximately 27,000 live donor kidney transplants were reported worldwide, and live donors supplied nearly 40 percent of kidney transplants in the United States.
The need for live kidney donors is greatest among blacks, who are significantly more likely to develop end-stage renal disease, yet have less access to kidney transplants. Researchers say that blacks are less likely to identify a potential donor and their potential donors are more likely to have health conditions at evaluation that limit their ability to donate.

Researchers used insurance claims from a private insurance provider, linked with identifiers from the Organ Procurement and Transplantation Network, to examine variations in the risk of post-donation medical diagnoses according to race.

All potential kidney donors undergo an evaluation that focuses on excluding patients with medical abnormalities at the time of assessment. After kidney donation, researchers found that in comparison to white donors, black donors were 52 percent more likely to be diagnosed with hypertension Hispanic donors also were 36 percent more likely than white donors to be diagnosed with hypertension. Additionally, black and Hispanic donors were more than two times as likely as white donors to be diagnosed with chronic kidney disease and to have drug-treated diabetes. Relative patterns were similar to those in the general population.
While normal pre-donation medical evaluation increases the overall likelihood of long-term good health for donors, Lentine said these screenings alone cannot be expected to eliminate the impact of epidemiologic risk factors for disease over time, such as aging and race.

“We are not proposing any change to donor selection policy based on these data,” Lentine said. “However, these findings show that we need a national policy for longer donor follow up, as opposed to the current two-year mandated tracking, so that we can capture and monitor the outcomes of donors from all sociodemographic groups.”

According to Lentine, more studies are needed to understand the consequences of post-donation diabetes and hypertension on the overall health of the donors. In the general population, hypertension and diabetes are typically associated with increased risk of end-organ complications. However, because kidney donors often receive closer surveillance and early intervention, the implications may be milder in this group.
Even if the risk of serious end-organ damage is small with good care, better understanding of the risk for hypertension and diabetes is relevant to counseling donors on possible financial risks from future prescriptions, medical treatment and associated insurance premiums.

“All donors should be committed to long-term medical follow up so that any health conditions that arise over time can be recognized and treated,” Lentine said.

Wednesday, November 17, 2010

❤Why Am I Doing This?❤

I am often asked why I chose to be a donor. Actually, it's not how I look at it. It didn't feel like a choice and certainly not a hard one. Before I offered my kidney to Mariama I felt peacefully guided by an inner knowing. You may call it Intuition, The Inner voice,  Divine Energy or God's Love. It was simply an inspired opportunity to give. This choice was given TO me, not made by me. I didn't do anything. I was being done. All I had to do was 'not do.' Not resist the urge to give. Freely, peacefully and lovingly. 

The only hard part of this process was the resistence I received from some friends whose own fears asked me to question my guidence.  Almost, without question, these friends doubted the decision. Many of their fears about their own lives came to the surface. "What if this..." and " What if that...?" "What about this..." and "What about that...?" "WHAT ABOUT YOUR KIDS?!?"  "There is no benefit to you, Thea. You're actually losing in this deal!!"  Thankfully the continued peace and reassurance I feel and the strength of my trust in Him, has become an unshakeable force for me and an inspiration for most of these skeptics. And now we all can be the witness for the trust for and love of God.

With God all things are possible and if I'm given the opportunity be a conduit of peace, love and joy through becoming a donor, I'm going to take it. That's all the reason I need.❤

Sunday, November 14, 2010

Nothing to fear

I can feel a change in Mariama. This last trip down to Boston I can see she is getting more tired. Nick and I enjoy making her and Ed laugh. We're always goofing around just being silly. She laughs and smiles and this brings Nick and I so much joy. But Mariama is getting tired.

The evening of November 13th around 6pm Mariama called to tell me that the results of her most recent blood test are showing greater signs of kidney failure. This means the blood carries more toxins and she is getting sicker. Her dr. told her that if she were to become dizzy or vomit, she should get to the emergency room asap. She was feeling more tired.

I knew there was nothing to fear. It's just a matter of time. I was ready! Whenever this was meant to happen, it would happen. I feel my impatience knocking. But I must remember that this is all happening in Divine Order.  It appears as if I'm waiting for the  Transplant Center to do their thing. I need to meet with the surgeon. Then there is a "Team Meeting' only on Wed's to discuss my eligibility. Ok..! And according to Nancy, transplant surgeries are done on Tuesday's. All this is done and all the time passes and I patiently await the Universe to align so that everyone and everything arrives together in perfect order!

It won't be long now.

Only for you, Mariama

We've pretty much finished the testing. All X-Rays, blood work and urine samples, PAP and Mamogram came out great! I must have done ok with the pyschiatrist because I was back this week to meet with the Nephrologist and had the CT Scan. The Nephrologist didn't like my blood pressure so they send a 24 hour monitoring device to keep track.
 
That CT Scan was not fun. Fasting all night with a 10am appointment, the technician jabbing me with big needles thristing for a good vein. After searching in my left arm, I told her to do the right arm.  It's where they all stick me. She wasn't satisfied with my suggestion so she started poking in the left. OUCH!!!!! Nick was afraid to tell me at that time what an awful job she did. Tears were streaming dowm my face. Then a pinch! Finally, I thought, she's finshed. But no, she had pulled the needle out and went for the right arm. "NO FREAKIN' WAY!" I yelled. "NO FREAKIN' WAY!" Thank God for my darling Nick who calmly wiped my tears away and said "Yes, sorry, Baby."
 
The needle went in! She said first water in the vein then a contrast dye so they can take a few pics of my abdomen. The dye stung as it went in and then a warm sensation throught my body. " Take a deep breath in." the machine told me. Then it said " You can breath normally." A few minutes later, I was out of there. I was told to drink plenty of water to rid my kidney of the dye.  I felt crappy for the rest of the day and into the night. I felt a migraine coming on and when I  went to bed I thought my head would explode. I didn't want to take anything for it because of the effect on my kidney's. Nick gave me a cold compress and I fell to sleep.
 
 
 

Monday, November 8, 2010

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Friday October 29th were waiting for the call from Nancy about the results of my tests. At 4:30 when she didn't call me, I called her. "Oh, Hi Thea! Yes, I have your results right here. Let me grab your file."

All tests results confirmed I was in perfect health. EKG excellent. Chest X-Ray normal. Blood work very good. I sent a text to Mariama giving her the news. Friday's are turning into good news days.

Next step, meeting with the Psychiatrist. He wants to see if I'm a NUT CASE.

I'll keep you posted.